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Showing posts with label how can I help. Show all posts

More on Golden Retrievers - Meet Emma

Emma, the pup on the left, is a rescue puppy from a commercial breeder in Missouri, and our current foster.  Retrieve A Golden of Minnesota (RAGOM) rescued 29 female Golden Retrievers last weekend and brought them to Minnesota. These sweet dogs had one purpose in life:  to be bred and give birth to puppies.  They lived in dog runs, small crates, and had little contact with humans.  They were never socialized, making them terrified of people.  Following is a bit about her experience at our home:

3-25-12:  Six month old Emma arrived today, safe and sound after an exhuasting and terrifying journey. We knew nothing about her, but the volunteers at RAGOM had a team of vets waiting for the entire crew. The gals were triaged upon arrival in the Twin Cities early Sunday morning.  To say that she's frightened is a gross understatement.  The only way to get her to come out of her crate is to leave the room and let our foster Molly, and resident Rudy, work their magic.  Both big dogs are gentle and patient with her.  In fact, since she's only been around other dogs, her comfort lies in the presence of Rudy and Molly. She hides from people with her nose in the back corner of her crate.  Molly sleeps near her and watches her with a look of empathy and concern.  Rudy lords over the two of them from his perch on the couch.

3-26-12:  Emma won't eat, but she did finally take a drink of water this morning.  I was so happy to see her getting at least something in her system. 

3-27-12:  Sweet Emma loves to play chase and wrestle with the big dogs.  She's mastered the stairs and enjoys being outside. She follows Rudy and Molly everywhere.  Craig and I picked her up and sat with her tonight.  She let us pet her, but her little heart was beating a mile a minute and her muscles were very tense.  We will do this for short stints several times a day so that she gets used to us.  We also put our worn t-shirts in her crate so that she can get to know our smell.  At this point, it's extremely important to let her come to us.  Positive reinforcement only.

3-28-12:  Emma is still a flight risk, which is common for gals like her.  She walks around the yard with a trailing leash on, for her own safety.  She's eating and drinking like a champ, and has even decided to explore a bit.

3-29-12:  Big day today!  Craig and I hauled Emma to the vet for a wellness exam.  She checked out beautifully and is in great health.  Since some of her litter mates were diagnosed with ear mites and whip worms, she was treated for both as a precaution, even though all tests came back negative.  Better safe than sorry.  She's currently resting in her safe place (her crate).  I'm sure she's exhausted.

3-30-12:  Emma went to see our fabulous groomer.  She had a bath, trim and brush, and ear cleaning.  We can tell that she feels much better, both physically and emotionally.  She's still scared of people, but she's making progress.

3-31-12:  We had an impromtu backyard BBQ tonight, and Emma did great!  She played with the other dogs until everyone was worn out.  At one point, I picked her up and put her in my lap, gently petting her. Though it took a while, her body finally relaxed.  Baby steps.

4-1-12:  Emma is now taking treats from our hands, and coming in and out of her crate on her own (we leave the door open when we're home).  She has learned her name and knows that only good things come from people.  She's still skittish, but that's better than terrified.

4-2-12:  Wow!  This morning, Emma made leaps and bounds!  She explored the entire house on her own, played in the backyard (complete with a case of the zoomies) and wrestled with Rudy.  She even found her voice today, and we couldn't be happier.  Her barking and howling shows that she's becoming more confident.  She still has a long way to go, but the puppy in Emma is really starting to emerge.  We've discovered that she loves to hoard anything she can find.  Yesterday, while I was sorting socks, she slowly came close, gently took a sock out of the basket, and then proudly pranced away to her crate.  Later, when she was playing with Rudy, I went to retrieve the sock.  Much to my surprise, I discovered a pile of things:  Two more socks, a balled up paper bag, two dish cloths, a match box car, and a dollar bill. Plus, she had several stuffed toys and a ball in there (she's allowed to have the ball and toys, just not our things).  She was obviously counter surfing when I wasn't paying attention.

4-3-12:  I was rewarded with gentle licks and sniffs again today. We wanted Emma to have some play time without us scaring her, so Craig invented the perfect toy.  He drilled a hole in a tennis ball, attached some rubber to the rope, and tied it to the tree at "dog" level.  It was a hit!  She spends lots of time chasing it, batting it, and tugging it.  Murray and I like to sit outside and watch.  She's pure entertainment, this girl! 


 She's still pretty camera shy, so it's hard to get a good picture.

Rudy and Emma.  Emma really felt the need for some comfort, so she linked paws with Rudy.

**I am a volunteer for Retrieve A Golden of Minnesota.  I was not compensated for this post.  All opinions are my own.**

A Few Things

If you haven't noticed, I've been experimenting with background, font, and layouts with my blog.  I'm getting ready for my big debut on my own domain.  It's more complicated than I thought it would be...but the IT experts assured me that it would be worth it.  You can still find me here until I figure all of this out.

On another note, thank you so very much to those of you who have donated items to St. Gianna's maternity home.  I know how much your gifts will be appreciated.  I will be accepting donations until December 15th, and will ship donations boxes on December 16.  Hopefully, we can touch a whole lot of kids and mommies who so desperately need help.  Still needed are bathrobes (for the expectant mothers), aluminum foil, baggies, cleaning supplies, toilet paper, stamps, and gift cards (for groceries, supplies, etc).  Please consider helping these local women and children.  You can read more about St. Gianna's here.

Murray and I had our monthly 'date day' today.  Our special time together always includes breakfast out, a bit of shopping, lots of game playing, movies, books, puzzles, hot chocolate, popcorn and tons of snuggles.  He exhausts me, but it's so worth it.  These days are my favorite...I will cherish them forever. I would be remiss if I didn't tell you that as much as I love these days, I still look forward to nap time.  Which I'm off to now.  Because after that, it's time to play in the snow.

Yawn.

St. Gianna's Maternity Home

Saint Gianna Beretta Molla was canonized in 1962 by Pope John Paul II.  She was a loving mother of four, who gave her life to save her youngest child. She was diagnosed with a painful tumor while pregnant.  Had she endured the surgery necessary to save her life, her baby would have died. 

From St: . Gianna, "I renew the offering of my life to the Lord. I am ready for anything as long as my baby is saved."

The ultimate sacrifice. 

Read more about St. Gianna here.  And here.

Stay with me please, I do have a purpose.

Years ago, my late Mom was transferred  (for work) to a small town in northern ND.  I visited her often, and my route from Moorhead, MN to Grafton, ND, led me through the tiny town of Warsaw, ND. While driving through Warsaw, I always admired the Catholic Church of Stainslaus.
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Each time I traveled through Warsaw, I couldn't help but notice a vacant brick building directly across the street from the church. 

Here it is:



Several years ago, Mom related to me that this building was being converted into a maternity home for pregnant women and teens in crisis.

St. Gianni's Maternity Home opened in 2003.  Since then, they have helped many pregnant women in crisis.  My Mom and I were both in awe at the generosity of the sisters and staff who opened this amazing place.

Recently, I felt the urge to do something to help the families that turn to St. Gianna's, so  I decided to start a fundraiser.  I realize that we're in a time of economic crisis, but really, even $2 would help. 

Some suggestions, according to the website:  Cleaning products, stamps (for postage), household items (i.e. toilet paper, plastic baggies (any size), paper towels, paper plates, etc..

That said, I would really like to be able to send these moms, babies, children, and staff a few gifts for Christmas.  It could be gift cards, a gently used toy, gently used clothing, pesonal items, or anything else you can think of.  Anything would be appreciated.

Please contact me with questions or comments.  I would love to hear from you. You can find me at marie.beckerleg@gmail.com or 218-329-2268.

A picture of a room for a babe and his/her Mom: